smartphone can fool you

Have you ever seen people who are busy with their smart phone in the crowd. This is a phenomenon that is called smart phone fever. because smart phone has many features and gadgets, people adore to it very much. They often spend all of their time for the smart phone. Many students are forgotten to study by the smart phone.

The most popular application in the smart phone is chatting. Many chatting gadget have changed people behavior to interact to others. They just send email or through social media to connect to the people. When we see at glance this is really good for us because our life seems to be simple but in fact it can fool you. Chatting in front of phone is very different to face to face interaction. Face to face interaction is real interaction more that real chatting. When chatting people usually think before they send message.

Again this is can fool you. They people you know very good in chatting is not guaranteed good in real life. While people is good in face to face interaction is definitely good. So people just spend many time by this unreal life interaction. A quality time of people is spent by the smart phone Including workers, employees, students, use the smart phone every time.

For example students who use the smart phone when a study time, or employees are chatting in the office. In fact to abandon smart phone is quite difficult. It is very hard for you especially if you have a close friend in the cyberspace sure you cannot abandon them. Even if you can abandon, you cannot concentrate for your real work anymore. This is really bad for human life.

In fact smart phone cannot fool you if you use it wisely. The best solution when you are working or studying just turn of your smart phone before you get distraction.

deal with obstacles in writing

Writing is a skill that you can develop. You are a good writer if you can handle the obstacles in writing. Writing needs hard thinking. It is not easy but also not very difficult for some people. Most people believe that a writer has a gifted mind. In fact a person who develop their IQ by writing is a writer. So writing can improve your IQ. Well in writing we may find many obstacles that can drive us crazy. Only a few people success an many people fail. So how to deal with writing problem and become a gifted mind as writer. Here are some tips that can help you to handle a problem in writing.

Read a lot
Reading for a writer is a must. There is no a good writer can be existed without read a lot. Writer really need idea for their handcraft. The best source for this is by reading. Reading also help you find a good style how to write well. Perhaps you do not know how to make a good sentence for your article then you can copy some good sentence following the material that you have read. So this is the main point that can help you to handle some obstacle in writing.

Write everyday
Whatever come to you that make you busy remember always write. Do not really care about the quality of your writing just write everyday, and you will get many experiences that can fix your writing quality. Believe or not your writing quality will be improved automatically by write everyday.

Do not really care about idea
Many people cancel to write because they do not have any idea or topic to write. Just forget about idea just write anything in your mind. You can write your lazy day, or your acne in your face, anything whatever in your mind. Idea just make you stuck and cancel your intention. Remember this is your writing there are no one can argue with your idea. because your writing is yours.

Motivate yourself by writing
Motivation is the best important to keep your will in writing. Just say to yourself how important writing for your life. Because writing skill is the most important skill for many reason especially in education and job vacancy.

be a strong mind and mental

A strong man can do anything what they want. Strong means powerful. We are not talking about strong physically but now strong mental is our subject. However strong physically it does not really matter anymore because no one can handle a gun, bomb, nuclear even for the strongest man in the world but strong mind and mental can be everything even you can rule the world. By mental power and mind you can do everything, because you are not a person who easy to give up. You always do your best for your goal. No mater what anything you intent to always become a reality because of thing power. So the question is how to be strong?

1. Choose a strong environment.
You are strong if you around strong people, and you are weak if you around weaker. For example, if you born in military camp, I believe that there no reason you will be a weak.  Your mental and mind will be ground by this environment. You are not afraid to death. You are not easy to be distracted. Everything in your mind is to complete mission. Problem and obstacle is not hard to handle. You always strong and people will respect you. Sure it is different if you born in a wealth home. You have anything you need. You do not have to do something. There no reason you will be strong.

2. Pain
Pain is the best teacher to teach you to be strong. Most people who suffer to much grown to be a strong man. Without pain there no way you can be strong. You know what exactly life is. This is makes you strong.

3. Knowledge
Knowledge lead you mind and soul become more powerful. You know anything, everything. You can handle everything by your knowledge. That why people who are thin but genius, look more stronger that the guy who has a big muscle but idiot.

4. Relation
You relation is an important part for your power. If you have a skill to make relation or build your social network you will be named as a powerful guy. Everybody respect you. No one will be able to interrupt you because you have many person that always support you behind your back.This is can also give you self esteem and mental power.

how to be a good introvert

Introvert is one of the characters of human. The opposite of introvert is extrovert. A person who has an introvert tend to be silent and love be solitude. At the other hand extrovert love talking very much and making interaction. Introvert need a time to be alone. They need to recharge their energy. Many people think introvert is an anti social person. In fact introvert is not anti social, They also need a friend, girlfriend, and people who love them. A friend they are looking for is a close friend. It is very hard to be a friend for introvert. But once you have been considered as their friend, it mean you have already had a rival for your entire life. They are very loyal for their friend. Well as we know that introvert is a close person. They don't want to make a interaction if there is no reason to do that. They just want to talk when they think its important. So the question how to be a good introvert.

1. Just be introvert
If you think you are introvert just be yourself. You do not need to change yourself. It is true many people judge you are sucker. But remember there are still many introvert who understand you. People who judge you must be an extrovert. Ya it is because introvert is only 20 % in this world. So extrovert will be a stakeholder. Introvert has a charisma and inner beauty that extrovert doesn't. Many women chase a introvert man and vice versa.

2. Analysis your data
Introvert think first before they start talking, while extrovert talk without thinking. You look so cool than extrovert because you are not very much talking. But once you talk, all of your words is very important and full of meaning. So  to make it comes true, you must analyze your data before you make conclusion and start to make interaction.

3. Make interaction by your way
I know it is very hard for introvert to make a interaction to others. But remember as human we are social person who need other and socialize. In this case extrovert is one step ahead but doesn't mean ixtrovert cannot make an interaction to other. Even you don't like to start interaction, you can make interaction by yourself by following a coincidence. For example you can interact with you classmate by asking about examination, homework, or another important subject that you want to know.

4. Begin to write
Most of introvert very good in writing. It may very hard to express their idea by saying to other, but when it comes to word, it will be very nice. Introvert is hard thinker. They may surprise you when they show their hidden skill. Introvert is not a person who loves showing off to other. But when it comes to his show, extrovert is nothing. It is because introvert has tend to prepare very deep before they show it to other. So in writing they expression will come full of meaning follow by their hard thinking.

So being introvert is not bad at all. You do not have to listen to other especially for judging from extrovert. Many people force for introvert to change their behave. Extrovert become a popular in this word because their number is much more than introvert. Without introvert genius experts like Albert Einsten and others would be never exist in this world.